LOVELIGHT

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October 2008 *** Volume 6, No. 10

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Managing Editors: Adamaria Francis and a frannciscan taoist

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Thanks, and public acknowledgment to, the following contributors to this issue:  Ramona Abella, Barbara Baty,  Ruth Sembiro, and Cherigene Slaughter

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LOVELIGHT MAGAZINE: WHAT WE'RE ALL ABOUT

    

Lovelight magazine is free, coming to your inboxscreen monthly, to announce the beauty of Love!  And we love to laugh!:)  So, if you discover any good chuckles, please send them along!:)  But no bigoted, prejudiced, scatological, geruntological, low-quality, or poor-taste humor, please. 

     Still, life is not all laughs.  So, we hope also to share pleasant and happy thoughts.  Lovelight wants to promote peace and harmony, all over the world, and to aid you to feel good!:)  If you are working on any religious, psychological, or spiritual issues, we encourage you to read the ezine, and to write to us at rmfrancis@juno.com  

     Also, if you come across any wise or touching pieces, not copyrighted, fairly short, please share them with us!  Also welcome are practical tips, short pieces on personal philosophies, interesting facts, wordplays, and general spirituality (but no religion or "preachy" dogma, please.:).  We reserve the right to make whatever changes we deem necessary or desirable before inclusion in Lovelight.

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     This is "light" reading.  And it is also great, fun reading.  A collection of magazines is produced once a year, in a single paperback book.  We have published three volumes, and this would make a sweet gift for a loved one.  Happy reading!:)

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LOVELETTERS FROM BUDS, PALS, AND FRIENDS

 

From Ruth Sembiro, of Love Ministries of Uganda:

Dear Friends,

 

Greeting and love to you from Love Ministries Uganda!  I am pleased to inform you that the check for July has been credit on our account.  We are so grateful for all that Love Ministries is doing to help the needy in our community.   May you be blessed abundantly for this beautiful offer.

 

We have bought bunches of bananas for food, Groundnuts for sauce, soap and bread for the following homes:

 

Sarah's family (she has five children) and she is a single mother, she lives a difficult life where she has to look for food and everything to cater for the upbringing of her children.  It was so great to receive the provision of food and sauce plus soap and bread to this family.

 

The others that received are the widows and in their old age they can not do much to support their living; Mulingo Nakato and Babirye's family, also received the same items from the Love ministries.

 

Annet Kyamagero's family has three children and the husband was imprisoned was also considered, another needy family was identified by one of our members we hope to visit these people on Friday evening.

 

Then  Margaret was also suggested to help her with some money to buy medicine for her treatment.

 

We are so grateful for all the love and care that is extended to the needy in our community.

 

Thank you so much,

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LAUGHS, SMILES, AND CHUCCKLES: HUMORTHERAPY

 

THE LAME DUCK FINALLY GONE! sent in by Cherigene Slaughter:

 

In 2009, an old man approached the Marine standing guard at the White House and said, "I'd like to meet with President Bush." 

     The Marine said, "Sir, Mr. Bush no longer resides here."

     The man said okay, and walked away.  Later, he said to the same guard, "I'd like to meet with President Bush."

     The Marine said, "Sir, Mr. Bush no longer resides here."  He thanked him and left.

     Later, the man approached the same marine and said, "I'd like to meet with President Bush."

    He said, "Sir, this is the third time that you've been here asking to speak to Bush. I've said that Bush no longer resides here.  Don't you understand?"

     He said, "Oh, I understand.  I just love hearing it!"

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THE GREAT SOULS OF LOVE, sent in by Barbara Baty

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Mahatma GandhiÕs 5 Teachings To Bring About World Peace

 

ŌIf humanity is to progress, Gandhi is inescapable. He lived, thought, acted and inspired by the vision of humanity evolving toward a world of peace and harmony.Ķ

EditorÕs note: This post was written by Shilpan Patel, originally about M. Gandhi. of the Success Soul blog.

Have you ever dreamed about a joyful world with peace and prosperity for all humankind-- a world in which we respect and love each other despite the differences in our culture, religion and way of life?

I often feel helpless when I see the world in turmoil, a result of the differences between our ideals.  This leads to grief and sorrow being inflicted on millions of innocent victims by a few who abuse the power of their convictions.

ŌHow can I make a difference so that I can bring peace to this world that I love and cherish so much?

Many delightful saint mystics inspired the world with their faith in truth and justice for all humankind. They were great Souls who loved even those  who fought against their ideals to bring about peace with non-violence.

How could meek and fragile persons of small physical stature inspire millions to bring about a profound change in a way the mightiest had never achieved before? Their achievements were nothing less than miracles!  Their creed was to bring peace to not only those who suffered injustice and sorrow but to espouse a new way of life for humankind, with peace and harmony.  Their lives were a message.  [This was the] message of peace over power, of finding ways to reconcile our differences, and of living in harmony with respect and love even for our enemies.

 

Here is the essence of some of their wonderful teachings:  Teaching # 1: Power is of two kinds:  One is obtained by the fear of punishment and the other by acts of love.  Power based on love is a thousand times more effective and permanent than the one derived from fear of punishment.  

The force of power never wins against the power of love.  At this hour, of greatest unrest and turmoil in our world, the greatest force to be reckoned with lies within our hearts-- a force of love and tolerance for all.  Throughout their lives, these saintsages fought against the power of force.  They transformed the minds of millions to fight against injustice with peaceful means and non-violence.  Their message was as transparent to their enemies as it was to their followers.  They believed that, if we fight for the cause of humanity and greater justice, it should include even those who do not conform to our cause.  History attests to their power as they proved that we can bring about world peace by seeking and pursuing truth for the benefit of humankind. We can resolve the greatest of our differences if we dare to have a constructive conversation with our enemies.

Teaching # 2: What difference does it make to the dead, the orphans, and the homeless, whether the mad destruction is wrought under the name of totalitarianism or the holy name of liberty and democracy?  [In view of our involvement with the death of a million people in Iraq, we should be asking ourselves this question as Americans.]

A war always inflicts pain and sorrow on everyone. History has witnessed countless examples of dictators, including Hitler, Mussolini, Bush, and Stalin to name but a few, who inflicted sorrow and destruction on our world.  A world of peace can be achieved if we learn the power of non-violence, as shown by the lives of the sainntmystics.  [They] have proven that we can achieve the noble causes of liberty, justice and democracy for humankind without killing anyone, without making a child an orphan, and without making anyone homeless with the damage caused by war.

Teaching number 3:  There are some causes that I am prepared to die for, but no cause that I am prepared to kill for.

We live for our values and passion but at the core of our existence lies our innate desire to live a peaceful life.  The greatest noble cause is to display our desire to bring a bout peace in this world by our own sacrifice-- and not that of those who oppose our views.  The "strength" of cowardice is in using power to cause death and destruction for others.  The strength of courage is in self-sacrifice for the benefit of all.

Many sacrificed their own lucrative careers to lead a simple life and to share the pain of the powerless and destitute.  They won over the hearts of millions without ever displaying power over anyone-- simply with the power of altruism.  We too can bring peace to our world by showing our willingness to sacrifice our self-centered desires. Our utmost cause in life should be to win the hearts of others by showing our willingness to serve causes greater than ourselves.

Teaching # 4: An eye for an eye will only make the whole world blind

History can attest to the fact that most human conflicts have been as a result of a stubborn approach by our leaders.  Our history would turn out for the better if our leaders could just learn that most disputes can be resolved by showing a willingness to understand the issues of our opponents and by using diplomacy and compassion.

No matter where we live, what religion we practice or what culture we cultivate, at the heart of everything, we are all humans.  We all have the same ambitions and aspirations to raise our families and to live life to its fullest.  Our cultural, religious, and political differences should not provide the backbone to invoke conflicts that can only bring sorrow and destruction to our world.

Teaching #5: We must become the change that we want to see in the world.

A great leader always leads with an exemplary life that echoes her ideals.  The great saintmystics sacrificed much, and adopted a simple life to live among the millions who lived in poverty.  Today, we see modern leaders cajoling the masses with promises that they never intend to keep-- let alone practice what they preach in their own lives.  One cannot bring world peace to all unless a leader demonstrates peaceful acts of kindness daily.  The great mysticsages believed that we are all children of God.  We should not discriminate amongst ourselves based on faith, caste, creed or any other differences.

An outstanding example of these mystics' leadership was Gandhi's famous Salt March, which brought about a profound change.  On March 2nd 1930, as a protest against tax on salt, Gandhi wrote a remarkable letter to Lord Irwin, the Viceroy of India. He wrote, ŌDear Friend, I cannot intentionally hurt anything that lives, much less fellow human beings, even though they may do the greatest wrong to me and mine. Whilst, therefore, I hold the British rule to be a curse, I do not intend harm to a single Englishman or to any legitimate interest he may have in IndiaÉĶ  With these words, he inspired millions to fight for this righteous cause and eventually forced the British to leave India without inflicting harm to any Englishman.  These were the quintessential qualities of justice and peace that made changes in our world for the better.  [This was accomplished] with their ideals of faith, love and tolerance.

     These saintsages taught us that we can bring harmony to our world by becoming champions of love and peace for all.  The task is dauntingÉ.  Will you make a pledge to become the change that you would like to see in this world?

Let the first act of every morning be to make the following resolve for the day:

  • I shall not fear anyone on Earth.
  • I shall not fear God, but exercise my Love for Her by loving others. .
  • I shall not bear ill will toward anyone.  I will try to forgive, let go of, everyone.
  • I shall not submit to injustice from anyone.

I shall conquer untruth by truth.  And in resisting untruth, I shall put up with all suffering.

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SIMPLIFY, sent in by Barbara Baty

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21 Easy Hacks to Simplify Your Life

 

ŌSimplicity!  I say, let your affairs be as two or three, and not a hundred or a thousand instead of a million count half a dozen, and keep your accounts on your thumb-nail.Ķ – Henry David Thoreau

If youÕre trying to simplify your life, itÕs best to follow the four simple steps IÕve outlined before;  itÕs just the simplest method.

But sometimes life gets in the way, and you need a workaround, some way to get past your usual obstacles and to trick yourself into keeping things simple.

I use these ŌhacksĶ myself (in this case, ŌhacksĶ refers to workarounds or tricks to reach your goal.)  And IÕve found them to be effective in many cases.

Also, donÕt try to implement all of them; that would be far from simple!  Not all of them will apply to your life anyway.  Pick one or two and try them out.

Simple tricks to simplify your life:

1]Three-box decluttering. If youÕre trying to declutter a room, drawer, shelf, desk É use three boxes quickly to sort everything.  Just quickly go through each shelf or drawer or flat surface at once, putting things into three separate boxes: Trash, Donate, Maybe. The first two boxes are obvious É the Maybe box is for stuff youÕre not too sure about; you can put this in storage for a few months and decide later.  Put everything else-- the stuff you love and use-- back neatly.

2]  Create a no-distractions zone.  This is great for when you want to do some focused work-- which is just about every day for most of us.  Create a zone with no distractions-- no phones, no email, no co-workers, kids, or spouses-- nothing on the walls, no IM or Twitter, no websurfing.  Just the tools that you need to do your work, and nothing else.  You could also create a time within your schedule for this distraction-free zone-- say 8-10 a.m., for example.  No distractions within that block of time.  No emails or calls; you can handle those later.

     3]  Create a short list.  This is for big-picture simplifying.  If youÕre having a hard time getting your life to something truly simple, create a short list of things you love doing most.  This should be 4-5 thingsÉ.  Then, try to eliminate everything in your life that's not on the short list, to make room for the things you love.

     4]  Deflect all requests for a week.  If youÕre feeling overwhelmed, make the decision that you will not say ŌyesĶ to any new requests this week.  If you get a new request, politely decline.  If itÕs a request you canÕt decline, tell them youÕll get to it next week because you have some projects you need to finish this week.  Then pick one or two or even three projects (depending on their sizes) and focus on finishing them this week.  You can worry about new stuff next week.

     5]  Go schedule-less.  This works well if youÕve been over-packing your schedule.  Try this: set a policy that you wonÕt schedule any appointments. This wonÕt work for some people who have mandatory meetings, but if you control your schedule, you can tell people, ŌIÕm sorry, I donÕt make appointments anymore.  Call me on that day; and weÕll see how things are going.Ķ  Leave your day wide open.  At the beginning of the day, pick a few things to focus on and try to get them done.  If you need to meet with someone, call her, and meet.

     6]  Single-task.  This is good for those who tend to be all over the place. IÕve talked about it many times before.  DonÕt allow yourself to switch between tasks.  When youÕre working on a report or writing an article, donÕt do anything else.  When youÕre processing email, get to empty and do nothing else.  One task at a time, finish the task, and move on to the next.  Try this for one day, focusing on it completely for that day.  If it works for you, try it again the next day.

     7]  Start your day with peace.  ItÕs so easy to implement; and yet it can have such a powerful effect on your day.  When you first rise, do something that is calming and peaceful.  That might be running or walking, having a quiet cup of coffee with a book, watching the sun rise, meditating, or yoga É whatever works well for you.  It can be 10 minutes or an hour, but find some peace in the morning and use it to calm you throughout your entire day.

     8]  Eat only 7 things.  If youÕre trying to be healthful, but are having a hard time navigating complicated diets, try this hack to simplify things.  Limit yourself to non-packaged foods-- fruits, veggies, whole grains, lean protein, lean calcium, beans, nuts, good fats.  Nothing from a box.  This will require that you cook your food, but it doesnÕt have to be complicated.

     9]  Go paperless.  This works great for certain types of job.  It wonÕt work for other jobs.  But if you can do it, you can save time filing, save time searching for stuff, save space, simplify your office, and save a few trees, too. First, insist that everything be sent via email or through online documents. Then create a filing system that works for you. those things that can only be sent via paper, scan and toss.  Try to limit the scanning, and request that things be sent electronically.

     10]  Go media free.  If your life is filled with information overload, and you find little time to do the things you love to do, consider eliminating media from your life, at least temporarily.  This includes cable TV, DVDs, newspapers and magazines, Internet news etc.  Now, IÕm not saying that you should eliminate the things you love.  You might love a certain tv show-- in that case, eliminate everything else.  You can go media free for a week to see whether it improves your life, and then consider extending it for longer.  This hack wonÕt work for everyone.

     11]  Limit yourself to 3 tasks.  If your to-do list is long and overwhelming, pick three tasks that you want to do today-- important tasks that arenÕt just urgent but actually have a long-lasting impact on your life.  Focus on getting these three tasks done before anything else.  If you finish early, you can either call it a day or get some bonus tasks done.

     12]  Limit yourself to one project.  How many projects are you juggling right now?  If there are too many, you might be limiting your effectiveness.  Instead, focus on one project right now, and put the others on the back-burner. Try to get that one project done as quickly as possible, and then work on the next one.

     13]  Five-sentence emails.  This works well if you spend too much time writing emails.  I got the idea from Mike Davidson, who advocates limiting each email to five sentences or fewer.  This forces you to keep your emails brief and to the point.  It limits the amount of time you use doing email. And it forces you to decide whatÕs important in each email.

     14]  Thirty-day rule.  This is a fantastic hack for those  who have trouble with impulse buying-- that great enemy of simplifying.  The rule is that if you want to buy something, you have to write it on your 30-day list, with the date that it was added to the list.  After 30 days, if you still want it, you can buy it. This doesnÕt apply to necessities such as groceries É which helps you distinguish between wants and needs, a great skill for simplifying.

     15]  Wear only a few colors.  You might want to try black, blue, grey and green, with some browns thrown in now and then.  Or, you might prefer brighter or more imaginative colors.  This means that itÕs very easy for you to match your clothes, and you donÕt need a lot of clothes. YouÕll have other colors you love to wear; build your wardrobe around them.  This wonÕt work for people who love having lots of clothes in a wide range of colors.

     16]  One in, two out.  Whenever you bring something into your house, you have to get rid of two things.  The normal rule is one in, one out, but somehow that never seems to work; things still accumulate.  Instead, get rid of two things and things will stay simple.

     17]  Work four days a week.  Of course, not everyone can set her own schedule, but if you have that luxury, limit yourself to four days a week-- eight hours or less.  You might set it to even six hours if you can manage that. And then make it three days.  But how can you work only four days if you currently work 5 and are overloaded as it is?  ItÕs funny, but you can somehow make it work.  ItÕs a well-known law that our work expands to fit the time we give it É and the flip side of that is if you shrink the time, you will shrink the work to fit the time.  If you have only four days in a work week, you will pick the most important tasks.  You will get the work done that needs to be done, and youÕll naturally eliminate the rest.  YouÕll set a schedule that works. YouÕll delegate and outsource and automate and eliminate.  And youÕll have an extra day off.  Try it and see.

     18]  Retire early.  This is a radical hack, but it can work for some people. In fact, itÕs worked for many.  Simply set an early retirement date (maybe even next year!) and force yourself to save up the money you need.  Take a mini-retirement if necessary.  Then, go back to work and save up for your next mini-retirement.  Or set your early retirement in five or 10 years, and then never go back to work.  It sounds unrealistic, but if you look at it that way, you can save the money you need to retire.  It means forcing yourself to make choices-- do you want to spend impulsively now, or retire early?  If you cut back on spending, you can save more.  Live simply and frugally and invest the difference.  Make more money in the short term so you donÕt need to work as much later.

     19]  Limit storage space.  Do you tend to save everything?  Have tons of stuff in storage, in closets or attics or garages, basements,     or cupboards?  The less storage you have, the less stuff youÕll save-- which will save you the stress of having to go through all that storage to find stuff, to organize stuff, to maintain stuff, to get rid of old stuff.  A good example is the desk.. Can you work on a table with no drawers?  This means that you donÕt have all the usual stuff in a desk, and forces you to keep things simple.  You can apply this to all areas of life if you like.

20]  Staunch your information flow.  Similar to the media fast, you can cut back on the amount of information coming into your life.  Do you currently have tons of emails coming in?  Find ways to reduce them; unsubscribe to mailing lists, ask people to stop sending you jokes or chainemails; or block them from your inbox; automatically filter things you donÕt really need to read.  Pre-empt common questions with an FAQ.  Do you read a lot of blog feeds?  Unsubscribe to those that donÕt give you value.  Do you read a lot of news?  Pick one newsource instead of five.

     21]  Send only five emails a day.  Pick five important emails to respond to. The rest can be delayed or deleted.  You end up prioritizing, and while some people donÕt get a response, you also donÕt spend all your time in email.  It frees you, and makes you realize that you donÕt have to respond to every email.  People will do just fine; you are not indispensable.

ŌReduce the complexity of life by eliminating the needless wants of life, and the labors of life reduce themselves.Ķ-- Edwin Way Teale

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DREAMS AND FEAR, sent in by Barbara Baty

 

 

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 ŌAnd in the end, itÕs not the years in your life that count.  ItÕs the life in your years.Ķ-- Abraham Lincoln

I love reading lists of things to do before you die. But after reading several of these lists, IÕve realized that each list is a very personal thing.  It can only apply to the writer of the list, and not to all human beings in general.  No such list can do that.

And think about this:  If youÕre trying to follow a list of things to do before you die É trying to check things off the list, just to say youÕve done it É whatÕs the point, really?  To be able to tell people youÕve done it?  To follow the life prescription of some writer?

I wonÕt try to tell you what to do before you die É but I will suggest some questions to figure out how to live É right now. Each and every day.

Because you never know how much time you have left, and trying to cram a list of things into that unknown time can be futile.  Instead, live every day to the fullest.  Get the most out of life.

1. Who do I love, and what am I doing about it?  When someone dies (two of my kidsÕ grandmother just died, so IÕve been thinking about this a lot), you realize that you never know how much time you have with the people you love.  They can go at any time-- as can you.  And so you must make the most of this time.

If you arenÕt spending time with the people you love, change that.  If you are holding a grudge against a family member, let it go and reconcile.  If youÕve done something to hurt a loved one, ask for forgiveness.  Drop the pride, and make up. If you havenÕt seen someone in awhile, call her now to set up a date.

2. Am I pursuing my dream, or is fear stopping me?  What have you always wanted to do?  Maybe something you dreamed of as a child but have given up as unrealistic?  Maybe something you still want to do, but are afraid of failing?  What fears are stopping you?  And what would be the worst that could happen if you overcame those fears and pursued your dream?

If youÕre already pursuing your dream, pat yourself on the back.  YouÕre doing awesome!

3. Am I doing something that matters?  ThereÕs a difference between doing work, and doing work that really matters.  Much of the time, we use up the few days we have on this earth with "busy-work," stuff that doesnÕt make much difference, and thatÕs sadly a waste of our lives.

Recently on Dumb Little Man, a writer suggested that you ask yourself, ŌWill this matter in five years?Ķ  This is a great question.  It helps you distinguish between trivial busy-work that will take up all of your time but not matter in a few years, and tasks, projects, and goals with high impact that will make a difference, in your career, in your life, in the lives of others.

4. What am I doing to help others?  Ironically, you get the most out of life not just by taking what you can for yourself, but by giving to others.  What have you done lately to help people out? Have you been kind to people?  Have you been compassionate?  Have you been there for anyone?  Listened?  Volunteered for those in need?  If youÕre not doing anything to help others, this is a good time to figure out one thing you can do for someone, and put it into action.  Ask this question on a regular basis, and youÕll make kindness a habit.

ŌOnly a life lived for others is a life worthwhile.Ķ-- Albert Einstein

5. Am I as good a person as I want to be?  You need to ask this of yourself all the time.  Sometimes, when you're impatient, selfish, or less-than-helpful, try to reflect back on what youÕve said and done; and realize that you could have done better.  Instead of beating yourself up about it, endeavor to try harder, to remember to allow your better angels to guide you, to rise above the trivialities of life to a higher plane.

ItÕs not easy to be a good person, at least not all of the time. ItÕs easier to be selfish, without thinking about it.  But is that how you want to be remembered?  Is that how you want to live your life?  Give it some thought, and act accordingly.

6. What am I doing to live life with passion, health and energy?  You can do all the right things, and yet live a life thatÕs dull and sluggish.  If you let your health go, you will have little energy and you will waste the minutes you have left on illness.  Instead, learn to live a healthy life, with good foods and exercise.  This will lead to more energy in your life.  And then, direct that energy into something youÕre passionate about.  If you havenÕt found that passion (or passions), start looking right now. J

ŌWe are always getting ready to live but never living.Ķ-- Ralph W. Emerson

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WHY WOMEN SHOULD VOTE, sent in by Ramona Abella

 

This is the story of our Grandmothers and Great-grandmothers; they lived only ninety years ago.  Remember, it was not until 1920 that women were granted the right to vote.  The women were innocent and defenseless, but they were jailed nonetheless, for picketing the White House, carrying signs asking for the vote (Lucy Burns).

     And by the end of the night, they were barely alive.

     Forty prison guards wielding clubs and their warden's blessing
went on a wild rampage against the thirty-three women wrongly convicted of
'obstructing sidewalk traffic.'
They beat Lucy Burns, chained her hands to the cell bars above
her head, and left her hanging for the night, bleeding and gasping for air.  (Also, Dora Lewis)
They hurled Dora Lewis into a dark cell, smashed her
head against an iron bed, and knocked her out cold.  Her cellmate,
Alice Cosu, thought Lewis was dead, and suffered a heart attack.
Additional affidavits describe the guards' grabbing, dragging,
beating, choking, slamming, pinching, twisting, and kicking the women.  Thus unfolded the "Night of Terror" on Nov. 15, 1917, when the warden at the Occoquan Workhouse in Virginia ordered his guards to "teach a lesson" to the suffragists imprisoned there because they dared to picket Woodrow Wilson's White House for the right to vote.
For weeks, the women's only water came from an open pail.  Their
food--all of it colorless slop--was infested with worms.  (Alice Paul)
When one of the leaders, Alice Paul, embarked on a hunger strike, they tied her to a chair, forced a tube down her throat, and poured liquid into her until she vomited.  She was tortured like this for weeks until word was smuggled out to the press.

     So, refresh my memory.  Some women won't vote this year because-- why was that exactly?  We have carpool duties?  We have to get to work?
Our vote doesn't matter?  It's raining?

     Last week, I went to a sparsely attended screening of HBO's new
movie "Iron Jawed Angels."  It is a graphic depiction of the battle
these women waged so that I could pull the curtain at the polling
booth and have my say.  I am ashamed to say I needed the reminder.  All these years later, voter registration is still my passion.  But the actual act of voting had become less personal for me, more rote. Frankly, voting often felt more like an obligation than a privilege. Sometimes it was inconvenient.  My friend Wendy, who is my age, and studied women's history, saw the HBO movie, too.  When she stopped by my desk to talk about it, she looked angry.  She was--with herself.  "One thought kept coming back to me as I watched that movie," she said. "What would those women think of the way I use, or don't use,
my right to vote?  All of us take it for granted now, not just younger women, but those of us who did seek to learn."  The  right to vote, she said, had become valuable to her all over again.  (HBO released the movie on video and dvd.) I wish all history, social studies and government teachers would include the movie in their curriculum.  I want it shown on Bunco night, too, and anywhere else women gather.  I realize that this isn't our usual idea of socializing,
but we are not voting in the numbers that we should be, and I think
a little shock therapy is in order:  It is jarring to watch Woodrow Wilson and his cronies try to persuade a psychiatrist to declare Alice Paul insane so that she could be permanently institutionalized.  And it is inspiring to watch the doctor refuse.  Alice Paul was strong, he said, and brave.  That didn't make her crazy.

     The doctor admonished the men:  "Courage in women is often mistaken for insanity." 

     Please, if you are so inclined, pass this on to all the women whom you know.  We need to get out and vote and use this right that was fought so hard for by these very courageous women.  When you vote, remember them,  as they suffered and died for you.  This election, history is being made.

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USEFUL WEBSITES, sent in by Cherigene Slaughter

 

Here are some web sites to help you discern  true from false emails.  Please put them somewhere you will be able to find them in the future. The political ones are supposed to be nonpartisan.

 

www.factcheck.org

 www.talkingpointsmemo.com

 www.huffingtonpost.com

 www.opensecrets.org

 www.snopes.com

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SOME GREENINFO, from GREENTIPS

 
A Greener Oil Change
 
Read this issue of Greentips online

A regular oil change can improve your carÕs fuel economy and minimize its air pollution and global warming emissions.  But what about the environmental impact of that oil change if it is not done right?  According to the Environmental Protection Agency (EPA), nearly 200 million gallons of used motor oil are improperly disposed of in the United States each year.  The oil from just one oil change can contaminate one million gallons of water-- a yearÕs supply for 50 people.

If you are a do-it-yourself oil changer, the EPA has provided the following guidelines to ensure the process is as clean as possible:

Used motor oil (from cars, trucks, boats, motorcycles, or lawn equipment) can be recycled to make new motor oil-- 2.5 quarts of new lubricating oil can be made from one gallon of used motor oil-- or processed into fuel oils or other materials. After you have changed your oil, take it to a local service station or recycling center that collects used motor oil for recycling (see related links for a recycling directory).  Some facilities collect used filters as well; if not, ask your waste collection service whether the filter can be disposed of with your household trash.

You might be able to further reduce your oil consumption (regardless of whether you do your own oil changes) by changing your oil less often.  A 2008 study conducted by the California Integrated Waste Management Board shows that many vehicles can go more than the standard 3,000 miles between oil changes, depending on driving conditions and motor oil type.  Before you skip your next oil change, however, be sure to follow your car manufacturerÕs recommendations listed in the ownerÕs manual.

Related Links

U.S. Environmental Protection Agency—You Dump It, You Drink It (pdf)

Ohio Office of Compliance Assistance and Pollution Prevention—Handling Used Oil from Your Home (pdf)
California Integrated Waste Management Board-- The 3,000 Mile Myth
Earth 911-- Automotive Parts Disposal and Facility Locator.

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